A couple of days ago I over heard some
of the girls in the class talking about fashion and I over heard
Jackie ask why don't guys have a sense of fashion, primarily
heterosexual males. I believe there are multiple answers to this
question.
One answer is that many men do not
feel the need to dress up on a daily basis. When someone takes the
time to match their cloths, do up their hair, etc. what they are
essentially doing is something we all know as peacocking. By doing
this we are making ourselves stand out to the opposite sex in an
attempt to attract a mate. At one time this was a common practice in
the male population and can still be seen in some cultures, but due
to contributing factors (primarily religious) this practice has died
out. Now we find that women have taken on this role, meaning that men
no longer feel the need to dress up in order to attract a mate
because it is no longer expected of them.
Another factor I believe is the fact
that male fashion hasn't really changed at all. Here are a couple of pics of what i have found to be the most common male fashionable clothing styles for the general public.

Male fashion trends
seem to still consist of suits, dress pants, various jackets, vests,
etc. they just come in phases. In fact the only organization that has
managed to create new clothes for male fashion is the military (damn
they are good). Examples of these are cargo pants, the pea coat,
trench coat, parka, and of course the bomber jacket. One problem that
I see with this is that though the dress cloths may look nice you
cant do anything in them, they stain and get damaged too easily so if
you are a guy who is fairly active these clothes are more of a
nuisance than anything (this especially applies to all tight pants,
guys stop wearing them you cant do jack while you have them on). And
many of the jackets, though they do look incredibly good, often are
seasonal. This means that most guys are left with jeans and t-shirts which when you look at it isn't that attention grabbing of a combination. Though you may use accessories, i.e. sunglasses, watches, necklaces etc. these only do so much.
There are of course many other aspects
such as hair styles and the like associated with a persons appearance but I believe that is a whole other ball park.
I think men feel as though if they take the time to put together an outfit and do their hair etc. it may be seen as feminine. And we all know that men do not like to be associated with being feminine. It was interesting that you mentioned peacocking because men who used to get dressed up were doing it to attract a mate. Where as today men could wear slacks and a button down shirt or polo and be seen as "dressing up". While men dress up to look nice for others I think women dress up more for themselves. Most women associate looking nice or dressing up with a high level o self confidence, not necessarily doing it to attract someone else's attention.
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